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Self Defense for the rest of us.

Self defense should not be about paranoia, it should be about mindfulness.  A large part of being mindful is to pay attention to what’s happening around you- good and bad.  If you are being mindful you are aware enough to enjoy a flower blooming, a child laughing, or an evil bad guy about to do some evil bad guy stuff.  I submit to you that by simply paying attention you will see more good things and be better able to avoid bad things.

Another part of being mindful is to be aware of possibilities.  Of course you should have a balanced approach to this as well.  Plan on and focus on the good things in your life, but prepare for the bad ones so you don’ t need to worry about them.  Have a home fire escape plan, have a home bad guy invasion plan, have an estate plan, have personal safety training of some type, all so you don’t have to think about those things very much- you already have a plan and can focus on the positive aspects of your life!

Weapons have been a big deal in the news these days, but in reality your best defense is not what is in your hand, rather it’s what is in your head.  Your plan, your strategy, and your intentions are the real self defense tools.

Ignoring bad things doesn’t make them go away, but having a plan to deal with them allows you to live your life in a much happier place. Practice mindful self defense.

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Lesson: Self Confidence

For this past testing cycle our students have been working on lessons regarding self confidence.  Their assignment was to list 10 things that they have done right or wrong that has helped build self confidence.

Though all of our students did this assignment, and many of them did a great job, I would have to say that my favorite was Sergio’s project.  Here it is!

 

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Tattling vs. Getting Help.

At the White Oak Martial Arts Center, we do a great deal of things to help kids deal with being bullied.  Everything from websites, classroom presentation, to empowerment classes- you name it.  One of the things that comes up pretty much every time there is a conversation about bullying is this: what is the difference between tattling and getting help when you need it?  Kids are all told not to tattle, so often times they won’t ask for help when they need it because they are confused about the difference.

It’s simple.  Tattling is when somebody is doing something that is in no way harmful to you or anybody else and you tell on them anyway.  Getting help is when somebody is doing or saying something that is harmful to you or others and you ask an authority figure for help.

Tattling is when the kid next to you in school is doodling and you raise your hand to say, “Mrs. Jones, Bobby is drawing pictures when he should be listening to you.”  Getting help is when Bobby calls you a bad name and takes your lunch money, so you privately go to Mrs. Jones and say, “Mrs. Jones Bobby insulted me and then took my lunch money, can you please help me?”

Discuss this with your kids.

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Here are some other resources on the subject.

http://www.metrokids.com/MetroKids/January-2010/Tattling-Versus-Telling/

http://www.kellybear.com/TeacherArticles/TeacherTip63.html

Black Belt Leaders can ninja on bad guys, but there’s much more….

Our students learn all about dealing with bullies, effective ways to say no to negative influences, and of course how to defend themselves against violence.  However, they also learn how to be contributing members of society, how to be leaders in whatever way is appropriate for them. Here’s what a couple of our Black Belt students did for one of their Lessons in Mastery. Yes, at our school education continues well after you earn your first Black Belt!

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THE SUMARY FOR:

The Charter for Compassion

Compassion means:

Treating people the way you wish to be treated.  “Don’t judge a book by its cover.”  Giving anyone complete justice, respect, and treating them equally as we would care for our family.  Wherever you are, you should always act kindly, avoiding being disrespectful in all ways, and not speaking badly of anyone, including the people we don’t like.  Never miss a chance to be kind and respectful.  Services are a good thing that leads up to compassion.  You do things you want to do, for instance, you go to the store with your parent because you want to, not because you feel you have to.  Helping elders, holding the door for someone, being kind; everything adds up.

We need to eliminate selfishness and bring back compassion and respect.  Selfishness is terrible, because it breaks respect, creates hatred and anger, etc.      Compassion helps a lot of things, and is crucial for human bonds.  It lays out the path to glory and successfulness, and is the ultimate creation of justice.

That is what COMPASSION means.

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The Free Focus Book

Here is a book that is some of the required reading for our Black Belt program. It is completely free and has some great ideas in it, so I thought I’d post it as I think you’ll enjoy reading it.

The ability to focus is the key to accomplishing whatever it is that you set your mind to doing- for work or play.  Having seen the positive results hundreds of times, I can honestly tell you that an education in the martial arts builds focus incredibly well.

So, here is the book. Enjoy!  Free Focus Book.

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Assignment: Positive Attitiude!

At the White Oak Martial Arts Center in Asheville, NC our students not only learn personal defense skills (everything from how to deal with a bully, negative peer pressure, or violence) but also how to be an ethical person who contributes to society in a positive way.  We want our students to be positive role models for everyone they come into contact with.

In fact, for every belt our students have to be able to apply a physical self defense skill, pass a physical fitness test, and complete a positive character trait task. This past cycle we talked about positive attitude.   Here is a short video showing off some of out students assignments, spot lighting Claudia and Bodhi.


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Black Belt Leaders have Self Control.

One of the most valuable things that martial arts students learn is self control, the ability to think before you act.  We do this through the discipline of managing ourselves, and to be honest, learning to manage force, power, and violence.  Most little boys at one time or another turn a banana into a gun, play fight and wrestle, and display other forms of “play violence.”  Little girls do as well, but differently. As a father of only girls I was amazed to learn what girl world is like. It’s a scary place:). Basically, girls are violent as well, but it is much more Machiavellian.

My point is this, violence is an attempt to build power and as humans we seek power.  This in and of itself is not a bad thing, but this power needs to be honed and focused towards positive ends.  This is where a martial arts education in self control is so important.  We address force, power, and violence directly and teach how to control these things, this quest for personal power, and how to shape the power we seek into a positive direction instead of a destructive one.

Here is a short video with this lesson as it will be taught in class.

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A Thank You Note.

I recently received this awesome thank you note from one of our adult students.

Master Croley,

I want to thank you for helping me in more ways than one and for opening my mind.  I have only attended your classes for two months now and I have benefited physically, mentally, and it has impacted my relationships at work in a positive way. Through your “Black Belt Leadership Program” I have opened my heart to others that I normally wouldn’t have.  I have given with an open heart in hopes to build friendship, especially with one person I’ve had a hard time with at work. The results have been positive. Thank you!

The entire point of an education in the martial arts in to improve yourself, and that means more than just doing push ups.  I am thrilled to hear about our students taking the martial arts mindset and applying it to their lives.

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Getting to Internal Power.

There are three beginning levels to martial arts, regardless of style.  Level 1 is Physical Power.  This means learning how to use the correct muscle groups and the skeleton, learning moves and techniques for coordination, and so on.  Level 2 is mixed internal and physical, and level 3 is pure internal power.  This means that the internal body power is greater than the physical body power.

There is a great deal of information on level 1 training, and even a lot of level 3, but there isn’t very much information about level 2.  This is important because to get to level 3 you need to know how to build it.  So here goes.

Level 2: Mixed internal and external power.

A. Physical Internal Power

1. Core Agility.

This means that you begin to work on core flexibility and agility.  Learn to use the lower pelvic muscles, the diaphragm, and pretty much all of the muscles around the core area.  The thing to remember is that we want to train agility and flexibility.  We want you to get so good using the strong core muscles that they become as smart as your hand. 

2. Attaching the Core and the Hand.

As you develop an intelligent core, we need the power and dexterity it has to be generated through your hands.  This means that we have to attach your hand to your core body mass.  To do this use the lats, the muscles in your back just under your arm.  Now as you more your core around your arm should be attached to it.

3. Attaching the Core to the Foot.

This is the same thing as attaching the core to the hand, only now you do it with your legs.  The big idea is to have your body be one complete unit that is controlled by the core muscle groups and the center of balance.

B. Change your focus.

1.  Turn the Core to Chi.

It is best to think of chi as a different body than your physical one. Your core area becomes chi when you focus on how it changes by shrinking, expanding and spiraling it.  Not the muscle and tissue, rather with your mind. When your core has become chi it should feel like an inflated basketball- empty, but pressurized.  However, it must also be able to change size, spin, spiral, and change in any way you like. This quality in your core is referred to as your “Dan Tien.”

2. Enlarge the Dan Tien.

Do everything we just discussed with the lower abdomen, but now do all of that with your entire torso.

3. Continue this same quality to your arms.

4. Continue this same quality to your legs.

At this point you can enter Level 3.  This means that you will begin to develop pure internal power.  This is sometimes stated as your internal is larger than your external.  Also, at level 3 you no longer consider your physical body- just the chi body. In level 2 there is chi, but it is still inside the confines of your skin,therefore the chi in level 2 is always behind the physical.  Level 3 has no such limitation.

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Theme of this Testing Cycle: Gratitude

It is easy to get hung up on all of the negative things that are happening in your life and in the world around you.  It is important to remember that your focus is your reality.  What you focus on the most is what will grow in your mind, and thus will guide your perspectives and your actions.  What it boils down to is that if you think about negative things you help those negative things grow within you.  If you focus on positive things you help those things grow within you.  Whatever you are helping to grow is what you are contributing to your life and how you are influencing the people around you.

One of the very best ways to keep your mind going in a constructive fashion is to do an exercise that you probably learned as a child called “counting your blessings.”  It’s simple.  When you are upset about something, write down that event.  Then on a different sheet of paper write down all of the things in your life that you are grateful for.  You will find that the things to be grateful for list is vastly larger than the bad things list.   When you begin to think in these terms you also start to notice the things that other people are doing that should go on the things to be grateful for list.  The world begins to become a pretty amazing place. 

I’m not suggesting that you should ignore nor hide from problems, but with a grateful mind you will be able to think in a  positive, solution oriented way instead of anything else.

Here is a video lesson about Gratitude.  This is the material we have been discussing in class for this testing cycle.

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