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		<title>Time to gear up for summer: Shameless Summer Program Plug!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Apr 2012 19:02:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Master Derek Croley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When school lets out the Summer of Kung fu Awesome begins! Our class schedule will not change, but we will add in the following events into our regular schedule! Free Ice Cream Days! Ninja Madness! (we&#8217;re going to make throwing stars and learn the secrets of how to make your own ninja mask) Kung Fu [...]]]></description>
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<p>When school lets out the <strong>Summer of Kung fu Awesome </strong>begins!</p>
<p>Our class schedule will not change, but we will add in the following events into our regular schedule!</p>
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<li>Free Ice Cream Days!</li>
<li>Ninja Madness! (we&#8217;re going to make throwing stars and learn the secrets of how to make your own ninja mask)</li>
<li>Kung Fu Panda Day!</li>
<li>Lotus Pole of Doom Day!</li>
<li>Grill Skillz Day!</li>
<li>Popcorn and Kung Fu Movie Night!</li>
<li>Build a Lightsaber Day!</li>
<li>And much much more!</li>
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<p>We&#8217;ll also have an end of summer party for everybody who makes all 16 classes during the months of June and July.</p>
<p>And finally we&#8217;ll have a Traveling White Oak Shirt Contest with two categories: 1) a picture of you wearing one of our shirts in the farthest away place, and 2) the funniest/coolest thing that you are doing in one of our shirts while on vacation somewhere.</p>
<p>Thanks! It&#8217;s going to be a great summer!</p>
<p>For more information check out our <a title="Summer Special!" href="http://www.whiteoakmartialarts.com/asheville-summer-karate-lessons/">Summer Program Page</a>!</p>
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		<title>Black Belt Leaders can ninja on bad guys, but there&#8217;s much more&#8230;.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 13:06:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Master Derek Croley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our students learn all about dealing with bullies, effective ways to say no to negative influences, and of course how to defend themselves against violence.  However, they also learn how to be contributing members of society, how to be leaders in whatever way is appropriate for them. Here&#8217;s what a couple of our Black Belt [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;" align="center">THE SUMARY FOR:</p>
<p style="text-align: left;" align="center">The Charter for Compassion</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Compassion means:</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Treating people the way you wish to be treated.  “Don’t judge a book by its cover.”  Giving anyone complete justice, respect, and treating them equally as we would care for our family.  Wherever you are, you should always act kindly, avoiding being disrespectful in all ways, and not speaking badly of anyone, including the people we don’t like.  Never miss a chance to be kind and respectful.  Services are a good thing that leads up to compassion.  You do things you want to do, for instance, you go to the store with your parent because you want to, not because you feel you have to.  Helping elders, holding the door for someone, being kind; everything adds up.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">We need to eliminate selfishness and bring back compassion and respect.  Selfishness is terrible, because it breaks respect, creates hatred and anger, etc.      Compassion helps a lot of things, and is crucial for human bonds.  It lays out the path to glory and successfulness, and is the ultimate creation of justice.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">That is what COMPASSION means.</p>
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		<title>The Free Focus Book</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Mar 2012 18:17:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Master Derek Croley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here is a book that is some of the required reading for our Black Belt program. It is completely free and has some great ideas in it, so I thought I&#8217;d post it as I think you&#8217;ll enjoy reading it. The ability to focus is the key to accomplishing whatever it is that you set your [...]]]></description>
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<p>Here is a book that is some of the required reading for our Black Belt program. It is completely free and has some great ideas in it, so I thought I&#8217;d post it as I think you&#8217;ll enjoy reading it.</p>
<p>The ability to focus is the key to accomplishing whatever it is that you set your mind to doing- for work or play.  Having seen the positive results hundreds of times, I can honestly tell you that an education in the martial arts builds focus incredibly well.</p>
<p>So, here is the book. Enjoy!  <a href="http://www.whiteoakmartialarts.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/Focus-Free-book.pdf">Free Focus Book</a>.</p>
<p>If you would like some more information about our school <a title="Martial Arts Classes" href="http://www.whiteoakmartialarts.com/martial-arts-classes/" target="_blank">click here</a>!</p>
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		<title>Assignment: Positive Attitiude!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 18:18:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Master Derek Croley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[At the White Oak Martial Arts Center in Asheville, NC our students not only learn personal defense skills (everything from how to deal with a bully, negative peer pressure, or violence) but also how to be an ethical person who contributes to society in a positive way.  We want our students to be positive role models [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At the White Oak Martial Arts Center in Asheville, NC our students not only learn personal defense skills (everything from how to deal with a bully, negative peer pressure, or violence) but also how to be an ethical person who contributes to society in a positive way.  We want our students to be positive role models for everyone they come into contact with.</p>
<p>In fact, for every belt our students have to be able to apply a physical self defense skill, pass a physical fitness test, and complete a positive character trait task. This past cycle we talked about positive attitude.   Here is a short video showing off some of out students assignments, spot lighting Claudia and Bodhi.</p>
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<a title="Martial Arts Classes" href="http://www.whiteoakmartialarts.com/martial-arts-classes/" target="_blank">Click here for more information about how our school can help your family.</a></p>
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		<title>Black Belt Leaders have Self Control.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 15:01:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Master Derek Croley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the most valuable things that martial arts students learn is self control, the ability to think before you act.  We do this through the discipline of managing ourselves, and to be honest, learning to manage force, power, and violence.  Most little boys at one time or another turn a banana into a gun, play [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.whiteoakmartialarts.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/MasterDerekCroley.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1438" title="MasterDerekCroley" src="http://www.whiteoakmartialarts.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/MasterDerekCroley-156x300.jpg" alt="" width="156" height="300" /></a>One of the most valuable things that martial arts students learn is self control, the ability to think before you act.  We do this through the discipline of managing ourselves, and to be honest, learning to manage force, power, and violence.  Most little boys at one time or another turn a banana into a gun, play fight and wrestle, and display other forms of &#8220;play violence.&#8221;  Little girls do as well, but differently. As a father of only girls I was amazed to learn what girl world is like. It&#8217;s a scary place:). Basically, girls are violent as well, but it is much more Machiavellian.</p>
<p>My point is this, violence is an attempt to build power and as humans we seek power.  This in and of itself is not a bad thing, but this power needs to be honed and focused towards positive ends.  This is where a martial arts education in self control is so important.  We address force, power, and violence directly and teach how to control these things, this quest for personal power, and how to shape the power we seek into a positive direction instead of a destructive one.</p>
<p>Here is a short video with this lesson as it will be taught in class.</p>
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<p>For more information about our school <a title="About Our Martial Arts" href="http://www.whiteoakmartialarts.com/about-our-martial-arts-asheville-martial-arts/" target="_blank">click here.</a></p>
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		<title>Join our new QiGong and Meditation class!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 13:11:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Master Derek Croley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By popular demand we are now offering a QiGong and Meditation class every Monday night at 7pm beginning on January 9th. This class will center completely around building chi with the objective of solidifying the relationship of the mind leading the chi and the chi leading body.  We will use Yi Jin Jing QiGong, Primordial QiGong, [...]]]></description>
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By popular demand we are now offering a QiGong and Meditation class every Monday night at 7pm beginning on January 9th. This class will center completely around building chi with the objective of solidifying the relationship of the mind leading the chi and the chi leading body.  We will use Yi Jin Jing QiGong, Primordial QiGong, and a few other forms of getting chi to flow.</p>
<p>QiGong can be used for three main functions: power in the martial arts, physical fitness and harmony, and the pursuit of personal development and enlightenment.  This class will not touch on martial arts at all and will focus entirely on the health and meditative aspects of QiGong.</p>
<p>These practices have been used to create and maintain good health in China for around 4000 years.  Having lived in China, the Chinese are a very intelligent and practical people. The only reason to do something that long is that it works.</p>
<p>Try this class once for free.  You will find that this is the perfect addition to your current fitness practices, and is a great very low impact way to get started on a fitness program regardless of your current level of health.</p>
<p>Stop by on Monday night from 7-8pm to try one class out for free.  If you have further questions call 828-713-0765 or email <a href="mailto:dctai@charter.net">dctai@charter.net</a>.</p>
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		<title>Shopping Safety.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2011 19:15:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Master Derek Croley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here are some things to keep in mind to keep shopping as it should be- fun! Shopping Safety Tips 1.     Don’t shop alone. Shopping is always more fun with friends anyway, and there is safety in numbers. 2.     Carry your cell phone and have group meet up times and places. If your larger group breaks up into [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here are some things to keep in mind to keep shopping as it should be- fun!<img class="alignright" src="http://shoppingthemewordpresspinktheme.newwpthemes.info/files/2011/10/Shopping.png" alt="" width="367" height="351" /></p>
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<p>Shopping Safety Tips</p>
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<p><strong>1.     </strong><strong>Don’t shop alone.</strong></p>
<p>Shopping is always more fun with friends anyway, and there is safety in numbers.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>2.     </strong><strong>Carry your cell phone and have group meet up times and places.</strong></p>
<p>If your larger group breaks up into smaller groups, make sure that there is a phone in every group. Set up a designated meeting time and place knowing that security will be called if a group is late.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>3.     </strong><strong>Don’t wear things that somebody would want to steal.</strong></p>
<p>Just wear normal casual clothes.  Don’t wear expensive looking jewelry that would be theft worthy and don’t carry a pocketbook that would be easy to grab.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>4.     </strong><strong>Walk with purpose, like you are on a schedule.</strong></p>
<p>If you look like you have spare time, you look like you won’t be missed for a little while.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>5.     </strong><strong>Pay attention to what is happening around you.</strong></p>
<p>Always pay attention!  Be on the lookout for potential bad guys.  If you get a bad feeling about somebody, you are probably right.  Get away and find security.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>6.     </strong><strong>Don’t carry large amounts of cash.</strong></p>
<p>You can call to report a card if it’s stolen….<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>7.     </strong><strong>Park by a light, lock your car, and get your keys out in the store.</strong></p>
<p>Look under and around your car as you approach, then look in it before you get in.  Have your keys out so you can get<br />
into the car quickly.  If things look bad, go back into the store.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>8.     </strong><strong>Panhandlers and people who approach you are most likely scammers.</strong></p>
<p>These people mostly want to see the contents of your wallet so their friend can mug you later. They are generally professionals, especially around here.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>9.     </strong><strong>If you feel threatened, find any store staff member or security.</strong></p>
<p>Any store employee can call security, and any store would be happy to escort you to your car.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>10.    </strong><strong>If you are in trouble, cause a scene. </strong><strong></strong></p>
<p>Bad guys want things to go down quietly and smoothly. So if somebody tries to hurt you, yell, scream, and generally draw<br />
attention to yourself.<strong></strong></p>
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		<title>Two More Black Belt Leaders!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2011 14:02:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Master Derek Croley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Congratulations to Zoe Kaplan and Elliot Gualano for earning their first degree Black Belts!  Earning a Black Belt with us is unique.  First of all, they do have to learn all of the moves, forms, techniques and what not.  However, the objective of learning these moves is self defense, not winning trophies.  Therefore, our Black Belt [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.whiteoakmartialarts.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Elliot.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1399" title="Elliot" src="http://www.whiteoakmartialarts.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Elliot-e1323093321435-169x300.jpg" alt="" width="169" height="300" /></a>Congratulations to <strong>Zoe Kaplan</strong> and <strong>Elliot Gualano</strong> for earning their first degree Black Belts!  Earning a Black Belt with us is unique.  First of all, they do have to learn all of the moves, forms, techniques and what not.  However, the objective of learning these moves is self defense, not winning trophies.  Therefore, our Black Belt physical exam is based on one simple notion.  Can this person actually defend him or her self in a real self defense scenario?  Can the student improvise and not be forced to do a bunch of dogmatically memorized stuff? It takes more self discipline and self confidence to be creative than to just perform a bunch of memorized stuff.</p>
<p>But on top of knowing what to do, the student must also have a clear understanding of when to do these things.  Obviously we don&#8217;t want to have a student who is looking for a fight all the time.  Therefore we spend a great deal of time teaching a simple philosophy of use- <em><strong>use the smallest amount of force necessary to not get hurt, preferably none, with the objective of escape.</strong></em></p>
<p>However, though there is the possibility of having to defend yourself against a physical attack, other attacks are much more likely- in fact I guarantee that they will take place.  Therefore our self defense curriculum spends a great deal of time working on defense against <em></em><strong><em>negative peer pressure, bullies, good nutrition choices, personal fear and self doubt, anger management, effective ways to say no, managing the environment</em>, and many other real life challenges that out kids face every day.</strong></p>
<p>And finally, out students learn a great deal of becoming an effective person.  A Black Belt Leader with us is the kind of person who is not negatively influenced by those around them, rather is a positive influence on those they come in contact with.  Out students learn about <strong>honesty, integrity, a positive attitude, gratitude, discipline, respect, self confidence</strong>, and a whole lot more.  These topics are taught in every class just like techniques are.  Not only that, but out students are required to actually do things to apply these lessons to their lives for each belt.  We call these tasks.</p>
<p>For Black Belt there is a community leadership task.  This time around Zoe lead a team to clean up the overpass bridge next to an elementary school, while Elliot lead an effort to raise money for gifts for the less fortunate.</p>
<p>Now that they have both earned their first degree Black Belt (and both did an amazing job on every challenge I threw at them) it is time for them to get to work on their second- with a whole new set of challenges!</p>
<p>If you would like more information about our school please <a title="Martial Arts Classes" href="http://www.whiteoakmartialarts.com/martial-arts-classes/" target="_blank">click here</a>.</p>
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		<title>A Thank You Note.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2011 19:52:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Master Derek Croley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I recently received this awesome thank you note from one of our adult students. Master Croley, I want to thank you for helping me in more ways than one and for opening my mind.  I have only attended your classes for two months now and I have benefited physically, mentally, and it has impacted my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="aligncenter" src="http://0.tqn.com/d/jobsearch/1/0/A/L/traditionalthankyou.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="332" />I recently received this awesome thank you note from one of our adult students.</p>
<blockquote><p>Master Croley,</p>
<p>I want to thank you for helping me in more ways than one and for opening my mind.  I have only attended your classes for two months now and I have benefited physically, mentally, and it has impacted my relationships at work in a positive way. Through your &#8220;Black Belt Leadership Program&#8221; I have opened my heart to others that I normally wouldn&#8217;t have.  I have given with an open heart in hopes to build friendship, especially with one person I&#8217;ve had a hard time with at work. The results have been positive. Thank you!</p></blockquote>
<p>The entire point of an education in the martial arts in to improve yourself, and that means more than just doing push ups.  I am thrilled to hear about our students taking the martial arts mindset and applying it to their lives.</p>
<p>For more information about out school please <a title="Martial Arts Classes" href="http://www.whiteoakmartialarts.com/martial-arts-classes/" target="_blank">click here</a>.</p>
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		<title>How a Black Belt should think.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 19:36:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Master Derek Croley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After one of our students earns a Black Belt, there is still continuing curriculum.  In fact, getting a black belt is kind of like getting your drivers license.  You can drive- but now it&#8217;s time to really learn how to do it!  Along with kunging and fuing, the first lesson our Black Belts learn about [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright" src="http://maxgrace.files.wordpress.com/2010/01/p-compassion.gif" alt="" width="365" height="279" />After one of our students earns a Black Belt, there is still continuing curriculum.  In fact, getting a black belt is kind of like getting your drivers license.  You can drive- but now it&#8217;s time to really learn how to do it!  Along with kunging and fuing, the first lesson our Black Belts learn about is Compassion.</p>
<p>Here is what Abir had to say about it.  Please note that he chose to approach this topic from the context of comparative religion but <em>we do not discuss religion in class</em>. With that said, this is an excellent paper discussing the concept of compassion from different perspectives.  I guess it helped him out a little bit that his mother teaches philosophy at UNCA.</p>
<blockquote><p>Dear Master Croley,</p>
<p>To me compassion is the Golden Rule that is, Treat Others The Way You Want To Be<br />
Treated. Compassion is important in the religions because each religion has the<br />
common value of compassion. For example in Hinduism compassion stands for non-Harmfulness.<br />
In Christianity compassion stands for loving even one’s enemies. In Buddhism<br />
compassion stands for the ability to fully appreciate one’s own suffering and<br />
the suffering of others. In Judaism compassion says, ‘Kindness gives to another,<br />
Compassion knows no other.’ In Islam compassion stands for helping and<br />
supporting everyone.</p>
<p>In every religion compassion requires<br />
humility and self-control. So if you have humility, self-control, and<br />
compassion altogether you are a good person. You learn these virtues and other<br />
virtues in the process of becoming a black-belt.</p>
<p>EX AMPLES:</p>
<ol>
<li>When I help my best-friend build<br />
lego sets.</li>
<li>Helping my friends learn to swing<br />
on the monkey bars at recess.</li>
<li>If somebody needs help washing the<br />
tables at lunch I help them.</li>
<li>If a classmate needs help with<br />
reading I go and help them.</li>
<li>If a friend has fallen down I help<br />
them up.</li>
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<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>Abir</p></blockquote>
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<p>I really like how he looked at this topic from several different angles and then applied them to his life.  Well done Abir!</p>
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