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Tattling vs. Getting Help.

At the White Oak Martial Arts Center, we do a great deal of things to help kids deal with being bullied.  Everything from websites, classroom presentation, to empowerment classes- you name it.  One of the things that comes up pretty much every time there is a conversation about bullying is this: what is the difference between tattling and getting help when you need it?  Kids are all told not to tattle, so often times they won’t ask for help when they need it because they are confused about the difference.

It’s simple.  Tattling is when somebody is doing something that is in no way harmful to you or anybody else and you tell on them anyway.  Getting help is when somebody is doing or saying something that is harmful to you or others and you ask an authority figure for help.

Tattling is when the kid next to you in school is doodling and you raise your hand to say, “Mrs. Jones, Bobby is drawing pictures when he should be listening to you.”  Getting help is when Bobby calls you a bad name and takes your lunch money, so you privately go to Mrs. Jones and say, “Mrs. Jones Bobby insulted me and then took my lunch money, can you please help me?”

Discuss this with your kids.

This is the kind of thing we teach at our school, if you would like more information about us please click here.

Here are some other resources on the subject.

http://www.metrokids.com/MetroKids/January-2010/Tattling-Versus-Telling/

http://www.kellybear.com/TeacherArticles/TeacherTip63.html

Time to gear up for summer: Shameless Summer Program Plug!

When school lets out the Summer of Kung fu Awesome begins!

Our class schedule will not change, but we will add in the following events into our regular schedule!

  • Free Ice Cream Days!
  • Ninja Madness! (we’re going to make throwing stars and learn the secrets of how to make your own ninja mask)
  • Kung Fu Panda Day!
  • Lotus Pole of Doom Day!
  • Grill Skillz Day!
  • Popcorn and Kung Fu Movie Night!
  • Build a Lightsaber Day!
  • And much much more!

We’ll also have an end of summer party for everybody who makes all 16 classes during the months of June and July.

And finally we’ll have a Traveling White Oak Shirt Contest with two categories: 1) a picture of you wearing one of our shirts in the farthest away place, and 2) the funniest/coolest thing that you are doing in one of our shirts while on vacation somewhere.

Thanks! It’s going to be a great summer!

For more information check out our Summer Program Page!

Black Belt Leaders can ninja on bad guys, but there’s much more….

Our students learn all about dealing with bullies, effective ways to say no to negative influences, and of course how to defend themselves against violence.  However, they also learn how to be contributing members of society, how to be leaders in whatever way is appropriate for them. Here’s what a couple of our Black Belt students did for one of their Lessons in Mastery. Yes, at our school education continues well after you earn your first Black Belt!

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THE SUMARY FOR:

The Charter for Compassion

Compassion means:

Treating people the way you wish to be treated.  “Don’t judge a book by its cover.”  Giving anyone complete justice, respect, and treating them equally as we would care for our family.  Wherever you are, you should always act kindly, avoiding being disrespectful in all ways, and not speaking badly of anyone, including the people we don’t like.  Never miss a chance to be kind and respectful.  Services are a good thing that leads up to compassion.  You do things you want to do, for instance, you go to the store with your parent because you want to, not because you feel you have to.  Helping elders, holding the door for someone, being kind; everything adds up.

We need to eliminate selfishness and bring back compassion and respect.  Selfishness is terrible, because it breaks respect, creates hatred and anger, etc.      Compassion helps a lot of things, and is crucial for human bonds.  It lays out the path to glory and successfulness, and is the ultimate creation of justice.

That is what COMPASSION means.

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The Free Focus Book

Here is a book that is some of the required reading for our Black Belt program. It is completely free and has some great ideas in it, so I thought I’d post it as I think you’ll enjoy reading it.

The ability to focus is the key to accomplishing whatever it is that you set your mind to doing- for work or play.  Having seen the positive results hundreds of times, I can honestly tell you that an education in the martial arts builds focus incredibly well.

So, here is the book. Enjoy!  Free Focus Book.

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How a Black Belt should think.

After one of our students earns a Black Belt, there is still continuing curriculum.  In fact, getting a black belt is kind of like getting your drivers license.  You can drive- but now it’s time to really learn how to do it!  Along with kunging and fuing, the first lesson our Black Belts learn about is Compassion.

Here is what Abir had to say about it.  Please note that he chose to approach this topic from the context of comparative religion but we do not discuss religion in class. With that said, this is an excellent paper discussing the concept of compassion from different perspectives.  I guess it helped him out a little bit that his mother teaches philosophy at UNCA.

Dear Master Croley,

To me compassion is the Golden Rule that is, Treat Others The Way You Want To Be
Treated. Compassion is important in the religions because each religion has the
common value of compassion. For example in Hinduism compassion stands for non-Harmfulness.
In Christianity compassion stands for loving even one’s enemies. In Buddhism
compassion stands for the ability to fully appreciate one’s own suffering and
the suffering of others. In Judaism compassion says, ‘Kindness gives to another,
Compassion knows no other.’ In Islam compassion stands for helping and
supporting everyone.

In every religion compassion requires
humility and self-control. So if you have humility, self-control, and
compassion altogether you are a good person. You learn these virtues and other
virtues in the process of becoming a black-belt.

EX AMPLES:

  1. When I help my best-friend build
    lego sets.
  2. Helping my friends learn to swing
    on the monkey bars at recess.
  3. If somebody needs help washing the
    tables at lunch I help them.
  4. If a classmate needs help with
    reading I go and help them.
  5. If a friend has fallen down I help
    them up.

Sincerely,

Abir

 

I really like how he looked at this topic from several different angles and then applied them to his life.  Well done Abir!

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Getting to Internal Power.

There are three beginning levels to martial arts, regardless of style.  Level 1 is Physical Power.  This means learning how to use the correct muscle groups and the skeleton, learning moves and techniques for coordination, and so on.  Level 2 is mixed internal and physical, and level 3 is pure internal power.  This means that the internal body power is greater than the physical body power.

There is a great deal of information on level 1 training, and even a lot of level 3, but there isn’t very much information about level 2.  This is important because to get to level 3 you need to know how to build it.  So here goes.

Level 2: Mixed internal and external power.

A. Physical Internal Power

1. Core Agility.

This means that you begin to work on core flexibility and agility.  Learn to use the lower pelvic muscles, the diaphragm, and pretty much all of the muscles around the core area.  The thing to remember is that we want to train agility and flexibility.  We want you to get so good using the strong core muscles that they become as smart as your hand. 

2. Attaching the Core and the Hand.

As you develop an intelligent core, we need the power and dexterity it has to be generated through your hands.  This means that we have to attach your hand to your core body mass.  To do this use the lats, the muscles in your back just under your arm.  Now as you more your core around your arm should be attached to it.

3. Attaching the Core to the Foot.

This is the same thing as attaching the core to the hand, only now you do it with your legs.  The big idea is to have your body be one complete unit that is controlled by the core muscle groups and the center of balance.

B. Change your focus.

1.  Turn the Core to Chi.

It is best to think of chi as a different body than your physical one. Your core area becomes chi when you focus on how it changes by shrinking, expanding and spiraling it.  Not the muscle and tissue, rather with your mind. When your core has become chi it should feel like an inflated basketball- empty, but pressurized.  However, it must also be able to change size, spin, spiral, and change in any way you like. This quality in your core is referred to as your “Dan Tien.”

2. Enlarge the Dan Tien.

Do everything we just discussed with the lower abdomen, but now do all of that with your entire torso.

3. Continue this same quality to your arms.

4. Continue this same quality to your legs.

At this point you can enter Level 3.  This means that you will begin to develop pure internal power.  This is sometimes stated as your internal is larger than your external.  Also, at level 3 you no longer consider your physical body- just the chi body. In level 2 there is chi, but it is still inside the confines of your skin,therefore the chi in level 2 is always behind the physical.  Level 3 has no such limitation.

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Steve Buser, MD on our school.

Here is what Steve Buser, MD had to say about our school.

 

Dr. Buser is a psychiatrist in private practice with Family Life and Learning Center in Asheville, NC.  He trained in medicine at Duke University and served 12 years as a physician in the US Air Force. 

He spent his final year in the military in the Republic of Panama and is reasonably fluent in Spanish.  In 2008 he completed a 2 year clinical training program at the CG Jung Institute of Chicago and subsequently founded the Asheville Jung Center, bringing internationally known Jungian speakers to a world wide audience via internet technology.

He is active in the community and strives to integrate faith and spirituality into his treatment.  He has been engaged in cutting edge research, including the use of advanced neuralstimulation technologies (Vagus Nerve Stimulation and Deep Brian Stimulation) for psychiatric conditions.

The above is taken from www.SteveBuser.com.

Dr. Buser and his son are, at the time of this video, Black Belt Candidates with us.  This means that they are just about to take their Black Belt exam.  Great job guys!

If you would like more information about our school, please click here to watch a short video about us.

On Living Your Art.

This week I was privileged to have been invited to teach a seminar at Hurricane Martial Arts Center. Here is a short clip from the show, focusing on using Internal Power in you everyday life.

 

 

The whole point is that martial arts is only a small percentage about punching and kicking and so on. At The White Oak Martial Arts Center what we really teach is how to use your mind and body with maximum efficiency for physical health and mental awareness.

White Oak Students Are Doing 3 Hours of Community Service.

This testing cycle our Thought In Action Theme of the Month is Humility!  Our Students task is to do 3 hours of community service within this testing cycle, get somebody where ever you do the work to fill out the form on the lessons sheet, and get a picture of themselves doing their service!
 

 
This is very important as part of being a Black Belt Leader is to overcome your personal fears and self doubts.  Another part of becoming a Black Belt Leader is to not be negatively influenced by others, be a positive example for the people around you.  The first requires Humility while the second is greatly aided by community service.

 

Some Senior Projects are Cool….

Master Croley with Marcus just before doing an interview for his project.

Recently I was privileged to have the opportunity to help out Marcus Hirshbine with his Senior Project at Enka High. It’s always fun to help out the kids in our community in any way that I can.  I asked him if he would share something for our blog and here is what he had to say.

I got involved with the classes that Master Derek Croley taught when I was introduced to my Senior project. My topic focused on the Samurai and using elements in understanding the Samurai, to help me better argue, that with this comprehension of such a key figure in not just Japanese history, but Asain history as well, to find a means of connecting this, divided mentality between most western people when it comes to interacting and understanding the Asian culture.

I was hoping to justify the necessity of this information in a business related stand point, or even political, if you were to do business, or make trips to an Asian country today, that knowing the samurai and the MANY influences it had, as well as analyzing and synthesizing the samurai itself to find a reflection of Asia’s own culture and to help better prepare yourself when meeting with social situations. The classes Master Derek Croley taught really taught me a lot about the samurai generally and gave many different aspects to approach the samurai and many more inclusive details with social interactions between the samurai and people of the time. Also by learning various arts that the samurai had used in combat gave me almost a first hand experience and a grasp to an extent, of what the samurai, when doing these maneuvers, might have actually done and why, which is vital in getting the overall idea of what they might do, or respond to situations and maybe connecting their methods, to today’s japan and maybe bridging that social/cultural gap between our societies.